Friday, 12 October 2012

Navratri : Festival of lights, Colors and Music!

Navratri : Festival of lights, Colors and Music!

To Begin with, Navratri my personal Favourite Festival of all time is around.. I wait for the whole year for this festival..When I was in school, we always had ‘My Favourite Festival’ as an essay topic. Invariably, majority of my class would resort to writing ‘Diwali’ or ‘Holi’. Easy to describe, easy to write – in English, Hindi, Marathi. But I made it a point to write on ‘Navratri’. Because it was/is still my favourite festival. Not Diwali or Holi.  Navratri means 9 nights. Nav = nine and ratri = nights. Navratri is a festival of goddess Durga. It is filled with lots of lights,colorful outfits and music!!

There’s something about dancing for 9 nights. Diwali is for 3-4 days, Holi for 2 days. Diwali grants a vacation, it is an excuse to extort money in the name of “Diwali Bonus” – something the postman, maids indulge in. Holi is another excuse to get drunk on bhaang and also to molest.

We Gujarati's celebrate it like nothing less.. The whole 9 days are like party for us!


 Earlier, the dancing used to go on till 1 am, at times till 3 am. But sadly now, it’s just till ten, on weekends till midnight. Navratri is characterised by "dandiya, garba, ghaati dance, Bollywood dance – inclusive of thumkas and jhatkas." My fave among the lot has to be garba - the clapping with a beat, twirling, concentration to get the steps right. But in the midst of all of this, due to uncoordinated efforts someone always gets hurt. My feet have been stamped upon and I have stamped upon others feet too. Though at times i have been stamped upon and hav badly hurt my foot, but this has never stopped me from playing garba.. there is something in those music that the whole of tiredness vanishes as soon as the music starts..



So garba has a few steps, often accessorised with claps, jumps. People from age 5yrs to 70yrs come and play garba..
 There’s ‘popat’. It looks like its really tough but it isn’t. Took me a while to perform it with confidence and without biting my lower lip in concentration. But the funniest has to be something called ‘sanedo’.
Sanedo requires one to sit on hunches, beat the sticks on the ground and then jump up all of a sudden and start dancing!!! I almost died laughing when I did it for the first time. And you dance on a song which goes like “Sanedo sanedo lal lal sanedo"


And then there’s dandiya. A stick is all you need. The step is pretty senseless but it’s a refreshing change when garba becomes monotonous. Dandiya is sometimes used to beat up people. Invariably people get -



Hit on the finger

Hit on the knuckle
Or get poked in eye
I have used it once, while dancing to intentionally hit someone on the knuckles hard for my own reasons. It also used for mock sword fighting.


But this is dance. There’s more to Navratri. Prasad (offerings to God). I just realised Navratri for me is less about praying and more about having fun with my friends. It acts like a reunion of sorts. All those whom you have not met the whole year will meet you like long lost siblings in navratri..



Falguni Pathak is like the Trademark of navratri she sings the best! The crowd who come to play when she is singing is like a crowd came in to watch SRK or Amitabh Bachchan.The rates of the passes where she is performing goes up like the petrol prices..


There is a funny Quote on it : Aa Gaya woh mahina jab tu khaas hai, agar tere pass Falguni ka pass hai.. :D



With Navratri, the jazziest outfits come out of the closet. Chaniya Cholis, (heavily embroidered blouse with a skirt and a stole – for women) Kediyas (A blouse with a flare, dhoti, stole and a turban for men) , Churidhar Kurta (for women and men alike), Salwar Kameez (Kameez is the same as a kurta, salwar is similar to a harem pant, worn by women). Oxidised jewelery, sparkly dupattas – you name it!



And then there’s boy-girl dynamics. A lot of eye-candy, staring, eyes locked for brief periods of time. Who’s checking out who, who’s cute. Navratri’s all about that jazz. But it lasts for 9 days only. Very few have managed to sustain the staring, flirting and checking out. Because Navratri eye candy is different from regular eye candy.



Another activity that’s a lot of fun with friends is to search for manic dancing, bad dancers and horrible outfits. Manic dancing tops the list in providing the best entertainment. There’s a lot of uncoordinated, goofy moves which doesn’t go unnoticed by us, in spite of the enormity of the said moves. This is the most celebrated festival all over India..




Monday, 8 October 2012

How to Love a Woman..?


How To Love a Woman..?

Read a beautiful post on a blog… Don’t ask me how I reached that page… I truly don’t know.. I guess I was searching for something, saw something else….got reminded of something, then searched for something else..blah blah blah…and there I was at that page… OK, cutting the crap down..here’s the post -
“As a relationship develops, many activities develop into protocols. You go shopping, dine, and make calls automatically without much thoughts. Before your love becomes stale and goal-less, consider what it means to truly love a woman.
The next chance you get to spend time with a woman you love, be it only 5 minutes, look into her eyes. If you have been together for many years, she probably would not notice it at first. Look long enough and she would notice your gaze. She would ask why. But you do not have to answer. Put away your work, complains, interests, and just put unwavering attention on her. Capture her every wink, hair lines, and every contours on her face. Observe how she moves and talks. Listen to how she sound. Look until her images enter your consciousness. You can feel her in your skin, your flesh, and your pulse. You become at peace with her. Time stops, and the world becomes less important. At that instance, both you and she becomes one, and becomes one with the world. When this happen, it does not matter if there are things both of you can do, or things you can talk about. These are unimportant. Every touch, every step, and every moment becomes sufficient by itself. Even if on a phone, both of your remain silent, that is alright. Because you know you truly love this woman.”
Well… so why did I write it here…because as soon as I read it..it rang some bell somewhere… reminded me of a very very similar article I had written long back (ok not so long back)… I don’t remember it though :( but I know it was as similar to this post as it could get… I wish I still had it with me… Huh..I was such a fool not to keep my articles safely..In fact, I don’t have the most of them with me :(  

Though i remember a song similar to this article..one of my favourite song by Bryan Adams. 
"Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman"

To really love a woman, to understand herYou gotta know her deep insideHear every thought, see every dreamAn' give her wings when she wants to flyThen when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her armsYou know you really love a woman
When you love a womanYou tell her, that she's really wantedWhen you love a woman you tell her that she's the one'Cuz she needs somebodyTo tell her that it's gonna last foreverSo tell me have you ever reallyReally, really ever loved a woman?Yeah
To really love a woman, let her hold youTil' you know how she needs to be touchedYou've gotta breathe her, really taste herTil' you can feel her in your bloodAn' when you can see your unborn children in her eyesYou know you really love a woman
When you love a womanYou tell her that she's really wantedWhen you love a woman you tell her that she's the one'Cuz she needs somebodyTo tell her that you'll always be togetherSo tell me have you ever reallyReally, really ever loved a woman?
OhYou've got to give her some faith, hold her tightA little tenderness, you gotta treat her rightShe will be there for you, takin' good care of youYou really gotta love your woman, ya
And when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her armsYou know you really love a woman
When you love a womanYou tell her that she's really wantedWhen you love a woman you tell her that she's the one'Cuz she needs somebodyTo tell her that it's gonna last foreverSo tell me have you ever reallyReally, really ever loved a woman?Yeah
Just tell me have you ever reallyReally, really, ever loved a woman?OhJust tell me have you ever reallyReally, really, ever loved a woman?


My Top 5 Addictions!!


My Top 5 Addictions!!


 huh….tough! Actually I am the kind of person who would get over even the strongest of likings with time…but I shall give it a shot for sure.

1. Internet, especially the social networking sites coz I am in touch with most of my friends through that only! And yes, I am also addicted to googling just about anything on the planet!

2. Clothes, footwears and bags – Ok, yes I admit I am also one of those, like any other woman 

3. Pampering – Yes I’m addicted to being pampered  And you can blame my father for that!

4. Few songs that I keep humming again and again and again…

5. Thinking – Oh boy, I think a bit too much!

Hah! Done. Finally. It was indeed tough :0 :D

Saturday, 6 October 2012

I, Me, Myself!!


I, Me, Myself!!




Some random facts about me… for people who, by any chance, might want to know me better ;)
- I hate waking up alone. It scares me, for some odd reason! And my day never goes well…i always have my sis besides me.. 
- I get over even my strongest likings (for material things) also. For instance, at some point I might have loved pasta/sandwich but no more :( I don’t know if that happens to everybody or is it just me!
- I am obsessed with the stats of my blog. I go check them again and again
- I can’t wait to read reviews for all the new movies that release
- I can’t drink milk. In fact, I can’t even stand the smell of hot milk… every morning I have to stop breathing for few seconds when I prepare milk for anyone. :P
- I am a Big Music freak...i can listen to songs anywhere anytime and sing along with them. :)
- Many times I keep thinking till I can’t think anymore…yes I am a hardcore ‘thinker’
- Till sometime back I didn’t know the real meaning of the word ‘crib’ (Ok, this one most of you know!)
- I don’t like people with incorrect grammar
- I simple love surprises…big or small….doesn’t matter :)
- I can’t forgive and forget…things get stuck in my head and it takes me time to get them out. I don’t particularly like this about myself
- I love to learn
- As for the fact.. i love myself!!
Anyone who thinks he/she knows me may want to add some points in the comments!