How to Love a Woman..?

How To Love a Woman..?

Read a beautiful post on a blog… Don’t ask me how I reached that page… I truly don’t know.. I guess I was searching for something, saw something else….got reminded of something, then searched for something else..blah blah blah…and there I was at that page… OK, cutting the crap down..here’s the post -

“As a relationship develops, many activities develop into protocols. You go shopping, dine, and make calls automatically without much thoughts. Before your love becomes stale and goal-less, consider what it means to truly love a woman.

The next chance you get to spend time with a woman you love, be it only 5 minutes, look into her eyes. If you have been together for many years, she probably would not notice it at first. Look long enough and she would notice your gaze. She would ask why. But you do not have to answer. Put away your work, complains, interests, and just put unwavering attention on her. Capture her every wink, hair lines, and every contours on her face. Observe how she moves and talks. Listen to how she sound. Look until her images enter your consciousness. You can feel her in your skin, your flesh, and your pulse. You become at peace with her. Time stops, and the world becomes less important. At that instance, both you and she becomes one, and becomes one with the world. When this happen, it does not matter if there are things both of you can do, or things you can talk about. These are unimportant. Every touch, every step, and every moment becomes sufficient by itself. Even if on a phone, both of your remain silent, that is alright. Because you know you truly love this woman.”

Well… so why did I write it here…because as soon as I read it..it rang some bell somewhere… reminded me of a very very similar article I had written long back (ok not so long back)… I don’t remember it though  but I know it was as similar to this post as it could get… I wish I still had it with me… Huh..I was such a fool not to keep my articles safely..In fact, I don’t have the most of them with me   

Though i remember a song similar to this article..one of my favourite song by Bryan Adams. 

"Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman"

To really love a woman, to understand herYou gotta know her deep insideHear every thought, see every dreamAn' give her wings when she wants to flyThen when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her armsYou know you really love a woman
When you love a womanYou tell her, that she's really wantedWhen you love a woman you tell her that she's the one'Cuz she needs somebodyTo tell her that it's gonna last foreverSo tell me have you ever reallyReally, really ever loved a woman?Yeah
To really love a woman, let her hold youTil' you know how she needs to be touchedYou've gotta breathe her, really taste herTil' you can feel her in your bloodAn' when you can see your unborn children in her eyesYou know you really love a woman
When you love a womanYou tell her that she's really wantedWhen you love a woman you tell her that she's the one'Cuz she needs somebodyTo tell her that you'll always be togetherSo tell me have you ever reallyReally, really ever loved a woman?
OhYou've got to give her some faith, hold her tightA little tenderness, you gotta treat her rightShe will be there for you, takin' good care of youYou really gotta love your woman, ya
And when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her armsYou know you really love a woman
When you love a womanYou tell her that she's really wantedWhen you love a woman you tell her that she's the one'Cuz she needs somebodyTo tell her that it's gonna last foreverSo tell me have you ever reallyReally, really ever loved a woman?Yeah
Just tell me have you ever reallyReally, really, ever loved a woman?OhJust tell me have you ever reallyReally, really, ever loved a woman?